Tuesday, July 9, 2019

ESSENCE OF A FRIENDSHIP

Real Friends

Does it mean to be a real friend? Do these kinds of friends exist? Do you think that there are true friends? How can we become true friends? How we can get a real friend?

BOND IN FRIENDSHIP

bonds in friendship
It’s really important to have at least one real friend, who always stay by your side. When we are in trouble he/she should be with us. A real friend will always understand our anger, happiness, madness and even sad-emotions. We don’t need to do the same thing but we have to do the same thing to find a real friend to show them that we also value their friendship. We have to show care and respect to each other. Sharing feeling sometimes helps to make the bond more strong and that’s what friendship is, you have to earn their trust and should also trust them, you both have to keep secrets between you two. 

THINGS NOT TO DO IN FRIENDSHIP!

things to do in friendshipWe may get a BAD FRIENDSHIP when we start blaming for everything to them and doubting. We don’t feel that we are always right and find their fault always. Never only spend time when we want we should give proper time in our friendship if we want long-lasting bonds. We have to be understanding and help them to face the truth. Sometimes we need to say the words that are more hurting than stings. We have to argue with them when misunderstanding happens to make relation strong. Always make your friend wanted as well as greet them with a good gesture. I.e. say them that “you are such a good buddy I have ever”, I like hanging out with you, etc. Be loyal to your words that will help to make an unbreakable bond. If we did badly something towards our friendship and friend then we have to learn to apologies not by words but with actions as well. Never ever think that friendship fades away or shallow our pride or something. Always make time for your friend.

Some Famous Quotes or Sayings About Friendship!

  • “TRUE FRIENDSHIP WILL ALWAYS PUSH US TOWARDS RIGHT WAYS, FALSE FRIENDS WILL ALWAYS CHAIN YOU TO THE MISTAKE IN YOUR PAST”                                                                                                                             -Seth Brown
  • “TRUTH IS, EVERYONE IS GOING TO HURT YOU. YOU JUST GOT TO FIND THE ONES WORTH SUFFERING FOR”                                      -Bob Marley
  • “A FRIEND IS SOMEONE WHO GIVES YOU TOTAL FREEDOM TO BE YOURSELF”                                                                         -Jim Morrison


 According to Aristotle, we meet three kinds of friends in life:-

  • Friendship of utility:- These are mainly due to the benefits each other like school-college mates.
  • Friendship of pleasure:- People with the same excitement or joy level.
  • Friendship of the goods:- Friendship based on respect, appreciation each other qualities and assist others on behalf of their greatness.



“A FRIEND WILL TELL YOU WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR, BUT A GOOD FRIEND WILL ALWAYS TELL YOU WHAT YOU NEED TO HEAR ON TIME”
Friendship is the only relationship which we choose by our-self on this Earth. We meet lots of people in our life we make hundreds of friends but as the bad time comes in life it reveals who is a true friend or the one who stays in our hard time. 

Good friends are also good for our health. They help us in our bad times and joy in happy hours.

Friends should also do:-

  • Increase our sense of belonging.
  • Reduce our stress and anxiety.
  • Boost our happiness.
  • Improve our self-confidence and self- worth.
  • Stays with us in every pain and trauma.
  • Demotivate in our bad habits 



      “Friendship is the lifelong relationship if we found the real one in life” 


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